Just like many of the hundreds of thousands of anonymous Valentine’s dropping into mailboxes this morning, the real St. Valentine is a man of mystery too. The most likely candidate is a Roman priest, martyred in AD 269, who performed marriages in secret for young lovers during the time when Pope Claudius II outlawed marriage for young men, believing it made them weak soldiers. Whilst imprisoned for his crimes, St. Valentine cured the blind daughter of his jailer and before his execution he is said to have written her a farewell letter, signing it ‘from your Valentine’. Centuries later, as Christianity spread throughout Europe, Pope Gelasius declared February 14 the feast day of St.Valentine, neatly falling during the Roman festival of fertility, Lupercalia.
It was until Geoffrey Chaucer’s 1382 piece Parlement of Foules, that we find the first modern day reference to Valentine’s Day. Even Shakespeare’s Ophelia in Hamlet talks of the day. ’Fancy’ Valentines made with real lace and ribbons, containing self-composed romantic verse, became popular in the UK from the early 1800s. As postage rates dropped, the popularity of sending Valentine’s soared and factories began mass producing Valentines with paper lace and printed verse. The fashion quickly crossed the Atlantic; Esther Howland sold and distributed the first paper lace Valentine’s in the US in 1847 from her father’s stationery store.
Fast forward more than 150 years, and today’s retailers and restaurateurs have been quick to add chocolates, roses, diamonds and candlelit dinners to the list of Valentines must-haves.
So what would you prefer; a handmade back-to-basics card with an original piece of romantic verse, or flowers delivered to your door and dinner à deux at the fanciest spot in town? What’s the best Valentine’s Day you have had? We’d love to hear.